Did You Forget to Say: ‘I Love You?’

When did you last say ‘I Love You’ to your husband, wife, girlfriend, boyfriend, partner, mother, father, sister, brother, daughter, son, grandmother, grandfather, aunt, uncle, or close friend?  As I pondered this question one day, it occurred to me that my reasons for asking this of myself was a direct result of my own inadequacies and oversights.  Perhaps it was guilt; perhaps not.         

We live in a world that is fraught with endless external stimuli that demands our undivided attention, bombarding us with 24-hour information overload that feeds the insatiable desire to conquer the next milestone.  That big promotion, or winning that elusive prize that we had our eyes on, or gaining the respect of our peers through hard work and determination are but a few of the countless culprits that has the potential to separate us from people and things that have true meaning in our lives.

We are so preoccupied with being at the top of our game and accumulating material possessions and wealth, that those things that are truly of substance and intrinsic value are, over time, gradually diminished to the point of being obscure  or non-existent.     

The natural instinct to survive and to provide, and all that is necessary to ensure that our families have a roof over our heads, enough food on the table, and adqequate clothing on our backs, sometimes causes us to take many things for granted.  How many times, during the course of our daily lives, did we fail to take a moment to tell someone that we love them and that we appreciate them for being a part of our lives? 

I have experienced feelings of regret when I failed to say those three simple, but powerful words to loved ones when I had the opportunity to do so.  And from those experiences, I share my epiphany with you: 

This life, which is but a microcosm in time, is fleeting – it can be snatched away in an instant.  When I leave home each morning to delve into my workaday activities, there is no guarantee that either I, or my wife will return that evening; or that the person I hold dear will be home when I stop by for a visit; or that they will answer the phone when I call to say hello.  It is because of this that I humbly offer the following advice.   

Take those few precious moments to tell someone how you feel; that they are special and that their existence has had a profound effect on your life.

Never forget to say… ‘I Love You.’

 

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10 comments

  1. Lovely and thoughtful post. I’ve always told my husband my favorite part of the day is when I hear him come in the back door, slide his briefcase under the desk, and say “Hello, I’m home”. I don’t need flowers, or diamonds, or grand gestures on Valentines Day. I just want the man I’ve loved for more than 30 years to come home at the end of the day safe and sound and I want to be able to gently squeeze his hand in bed at night before we go to sleep and tell him I love him.

  2. I agree; I always try to keep my business with people close to me finished or in as good shape as I can. I never let my loved ones leave without saying I love you and giving them a hug, even if they complain they are late! As they say, “Live every day as though it is your last, because one day, it surely will be…”

    –Lynne Diligent
    Intercultural Meanderings
    interculturalmeanderings.wordpress.com

    1. Lynne –

      Thanks for your reply, and you are quite correct. Our loved ones who complain that you’re making them late because you wanted to express affection really do appreciate it deep down inside. They might not admit it, but I have found this to be true.

      Best to you and yours,
      Kevin

  3. You are soo right! Life is indeed short and we do get so caught up in the grind that forget to stop and appreciate what and who is with you on this ride. It’s super important to let people in your life know how you feel and there’s so many ways to communicate now, there is really no excuse.

    Loved this post. 🙂

  4. yes,,that’s true!! we have to say ” i love you ” to another person, even we don’t know they will like it or not, at least the will know that we loved them… 🙂

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